When is the Right Time?

I am so lost. 

Alright, here's why: I really like one of my coworkers. A lot. We've been talking for a while now and it's possible that we might even start a relationship. Now, here's where it gets tricky... my EX does not know anything about this. I know, I know, he's my ex so why should he know? The thing is he still has feelings for me so I would think I am supposed to let him know myself, right? I don't want him to hear it from someone else. I just don't know when to tell him. I decided that maybe I can postpone the news until it was official between my coworker and I just so I know if this is really turning into anything... why worry someone if nothing is even happening? At the same time I think I should tell him before my friend and I start something so then if we do become official it won't be such a shock. When is the right time? 

If I were to ask myself: should you really be worrying? What if you don't start a new relationship? Then the answer would be yes. The fact is, I want to start a new relationship with this person. It just feels too right. Almost Too Perfect but I feel like I have to give this a chance. Everything that lead us up to meeting is just so in place, if I guard myself and don't give it a shot I know I would regret it. 

Too Perfect.

Is there such a thing as perfect? Or better yet, too perfect? I suppose that every relationship starts out that way, everything is too good to be true and what not, but sometimes things last, and are just naturally amazing. That's exactly what I think this is. It seems just way too perfect, but I have a feeling it's real. 

I've met someone who is incredibly amazing. Everything I look for in a guy, he has. There's only one thing stopping me from believing that he's my dream guy, but I just have to wait and figure it out later. He's a gentleman, he talks like he's pulled straight out of the past, he seems like someone who's trustworthy, he's not one of those guys that just want to get in your pants. He's respectful, I love that! We have a lot in common, which is always good, but we're different at the same time. Everything happened just so weird; we met at the perfect time, which makes me believe so much more in fate. Everything really does happen for a reason, you just have to have the patience to figure out what the reason truly is.